Fighting The Tyranny of Niceness: an extract from Difficult Women(Illustration: Sébastien Thibault/The Guardian)

“Difficult. It’s a word that rests on a knife-edge: when applied to a woman, it can be admiring, fearful, insulting and dismissive, all at once. In 2016, it was used of Theresa May (she was “a bloody difficult woman,” Ken Clarke said, when she ran for Tory leader). A year later, it gave the US author Roxane Gay the title for her short story collection. The late Elizabeth Wurtzel took “in praise of difficult women” as the strapline for her feminist manifesto in 1998. The book’s main title was, simply, Bitch.”

Fighting The Tyranny of Niceness: an extract from Difficult Women (Illustration: Sébastien Thibault/The Guardian)